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It's a bit past half day, and so many things I've taken care of...and so many more to go....and the day seems like it's just flown by...


Relationships today...it seems like we are all in a rush to go through the program, and the reason there are so many breakups, divorce, broken hearts is because we have not taken the time to really figure out who we are... It is not saying the people in our life are not wonderful people...it's saying that we didn't look at our core self, and figure who we are before we involved someone in our world. Who is the one committing the bigger mistake? Is it the person that knows that they are with someone struggling to find out who they are, or is it the person on a mission of getting to know me?
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