It has been an interesting few weeks understanding loves. Understanding friends relationships, understanding how much so many of us have in common (or do we? you know who you are).
In the past few blogs I was writing about why so many hurt, suffer pain. I had seen so many extremes and how it was one thing or another and the only one thing in every relationship that you can overdose on( and it is o.k.) is communication (how ever you choose to express it, or how creative you want to get). It is so hard at times watching relationships where you can see the love so clearly but I don't know if it's pride, or fear that people hold back what they need to say? I know that sometimes it is easier to tell an indirect person what you want to say due to being let down, or hurt just flat out sucks, but wouldn't it suck more to just miss out on something amazing or find out now if it is even worth all that worry?
We get this great opportunity at life. We have the ability to communicate, act, show up in life so go for it.
I've been told that I'm an awesome girl for many different reasons (and to those who have given me that compliment thank you)...I am in my own way....but so are many people out there....
Another thing I've seen is people say that they are open minded but label and assume (it's very disappointing) in two seconds. You either are open minded or very CLOSED minded. You can't tell me that you are the most romantic person on earth but sleep around every day with whom ever because you just haven't found the one, or the one isn't where you are at in life. is that really a turn on quality? It is very difficult for people to figure out what type of person you are if you act tough and like you don't care in public, and then another way alone, and then switch again. If people would just be themselves...wow what a movement that would be. I have met so many amazing people and some I can mix up in a room all at once, and some I really can't. The really can't folks are because these walls or people come out that I go...um...where did you go?
Why do some people chase, to let go, to have you let go, and then get upset when you leave them alone? What is it that you want?
I'm lucky to have the relationship in my life, my friends, and my family. Those who have me close enjoy life and laughter, and for those that pushed to much...I wish you well...I'll miss you....but it's time to let some of you go.
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One thing you mention was people have told you, you were an awesome girl....Well I have to disagree with that ...Look up the meaning of the word "awesome" the only person worthy to be called and considered AWESOME IS GOD ALMIGHTY!!!!!!