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Chilling Out....




What Intentions Means



I is for Impressive



N is for Nutty



T is for Terrific



E is for Enthusiastic



N is for Neglected



T is for Tempting



I is for Ideal



O is for Odd



N is for Nice



S is for Sensitive



Wow what a year. We all watch shows, people, situations, and imagine the things that we strive for, the things that we want, how to go about it, and sometimes don't go about it the right way. I guess that is where that statement "Live and Learn" comes from...all those comments come from the same book of "If I knew then what I know now". I've said be-careful what you wish for it just might present itself in front of you when you think there is no way someone can read what it is you want. Be careful what you desire, it might come true, and then what? Sometimes those moments that forever change your life, also leave you a bit out in the cold full of more questions regardless that it solidifies other areas that you had doubt about at one time. Everything does happen for a reason. Why? Well that will all come out later. Take care of yourself. That comes first right? If you don't take care of you body, mind, soul, how could you possibly be good around others, especially those that you care for?

Chill out, another word for patience, take it easy, don't rush moments, savor the times, tuck them away. They are yours and yours alone. Some moments you want to scream out to the world, the thing is that they are more special when you keep them to your self due to they are your moments, and no matter how descriptive, no matter how much you could explain it to the point that someone could relate, it just isn't the same because it was yours, personal, and that is it. To every individual we all have different scales, so what affects some of us that leaves us breathless, might of been just a moment to others.
Take those moments as at least they wanted to spend that moment with you, gave you all that they could, and that was more than enough. I won't lie, it is easier said than done. Less is more, less is more, less is more. Get it? Nope I didn't for a while, and the more I take a step back in all the moments 2007 brought me, I've realized that being an open book isn't the best choice. All you can offer is a good ear. A good shoulder. Good support.

How do you pull a moment close, and make it stay? I haven't quite figured it out, but I'll stay determined that you should tell those that matter to you the most what they mean to you. You should tell those that doubt themselves due to fear that you have faith in them, and that it isn't unusual to be scared, but turn that fear into drive to overcome it. Tell those that sometimes feel abandonment that they need to have confidence, and with that confidence it will bring a magnetism that they will have to start seeking out alone time.

2008 will bring us all more moments, intensity, overwhelming events, and at the same time all those things will propel us to pull that power within, uniqueness, and propel us all towards a more fulfilling year of accomplishments.

Happy New Years! Happy 2008.
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