So, I didn't realize that people just will say something mean, over saying something constructive. Thank you ANONYMOUS that felt the need to go there...Great observation, and reminder sometimes you can't reach everyone.
It's like I was saying on the last blog. I didn't disagree with peoples opinions. Like I stated what works great for one relationship might not be for another.... Some relationships want to hear "Tell me you love me" others want the actions to show "love" What LOVE is for one person isn't the same for another....I was talking with some friends that supported that statement....I.E. Cuddling, intimacy might fulfill one person, while someone helping out around the house or mowing the yard might fulfill another.
Everything is so touchy because once you think you have it all figured out, something comes out of the blue and throws the famous curve ball. Friends with benefits...good, great...but doesn't someone always get hurt? Isn't there someone that always has a little bit more invested? I guess I'm a hopeless romantic that way. Is it called friends with benefits because it is the new version of figuring out what you want? Just some questions.
I have seen so many different types of relationships, and from all I've taken in a lot. I think in observations if we try a little bit of everything, it helps a relationship grow and become stronger.
We'll keep it short today. I'll have more to say this week.
Thank you again for your comments.
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I heard a song today that I danced to with my husband at a good friends wedding about a year ago. The DJ asked for everyone that was married to come on to the dance floor. As he counted down the years that people were married, he asked you to leave the dance floor. After a few 5,10, & 15 year couples left the floor, I looked around and noticed that among some very old couples was me and my husband, I was so proud at that time. Because you see me and my husband were married very young. As I looked out into the crowd I realized that we had made it longer than most couples old and young. This may not make any sense to you, it really hit home to me that my husband and I must have been doing something right all this time in our marriage. I felt good about this and as I looked at the man holding me that night who I had spent most of his life with, I couldn't help but remember the earlier years of our marriage. 19 years have passed and I am more in love with this man than ever. Through the good and the bad we have made it. I know there are more hard times to come and good time to come, but I also know that God put this man and woman together for a reason and everyday that I wake up and see this man's smiling face, I know why. If you get a chance listen to the song by Alan Jackson called "Remember When". Listen to the words it tells a beutiful story about marriage.
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